Paradoxical Therapy in Couple and Family Therapy: Mechanisms of Change and Implications

Authors

    Mohammad Hassan Asayesh Associate Professor in counseling, Educational Psychology and Counseling, Faculty of Psychology and Education, University of Tehran, Iran
    Kamdin Parsakia * Department of Educational Psychology and Counseling, Faculty of Psychology and Education, University of Tehran, Tehran, Iran | Department of Psychology and Counseling, KMAN Research Institute, Richmond Hill, Ontario, Canada. kamdin.parsakia@ut.ac.ir

Keywords:

Paradoxical Timetable Prescription, couple therapy, family therapy, paradoxical interventions

Abstract

This study aimed to explore the mechanisms of change and clinical implications of the Paradoxical Therapy or Paradoxical Timetable Prescription within the context of couple and family therapy. A qualitative research design was employed using conventional content analysis of 12 high-quality sources selected through the Critical Appraisal Skills Programme (CASP) method. The sources included empirical studies, clinical case reports, and theoretical contributions published in both Persian and English. Nvivo 14 software was used to facilitate data coding and thematic synthesis. An inductive analytic approach was used to identify emergent themes related to how Paradoxical Timetable Therapy functions as an intervention within relational systems, particularly among couples and families. The analysis produced 134 open codes, later refined into 23 focused categories and ultimately organized into five overarching themes: (1) restoration of volitional control, (2) emotional regulation and deflation, (3) disruption of the symptom reinforcement loop, (4) systemic pattern recalibration, and (5) therapeutic resistance bypass. The mechanisms of treatment and change in the paradoxical timetable were: Volitional Control Restoration, Emotional Deflation through Structured Permission, Reinforcement Loop Interruption, Systemic Role Reframing, Resistance Bypass via Paradoxical Framing, Artificialization, Changing the meaning of Symptom, Ego-Ego strength in system, Strengthening interaction, Balance in the self-other cycle. These mechanisms collectively demonstrated how PTC (Paradox+Timetable=Cure) restructures relational dynamics by embedding paradoxical behavior within scheduled time frames. The findings indicate that Paradoxical Timetable Prescription not only reduces symptom intensity but also fosters meta-awareness, reflective engagement, and systemic flexibility across couples and family members. The technique’s non-confrontational and humor-enabled format was particularly effective in reducing emotional escalation and preserving therapeutic alliance. Paradoxical Timetable Therapy emerges as a strategically paradoxical and relationally adaptive intervention that addresses entrenched emotional, behavioral, and systemic patterns in couple and family contexts. Its unique combination of structured permission and symptom scheduling enables both emotional containment and volitional reactivation, making it especially useful for high-conflict or resistant relational systems. The study highlights Paradoxical therapy's theoretical coherence, practical versatility, and potential for integration into broader systemic therapeutic protocols.

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Published

2025-09-10

Submitted

2025-04-12

Revised

2025-08-14

Accepted

2025-08-24

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Family and Couple Therapy

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Asayesh, M. H., & Parsakia, K. (2025). Paradoxical Therapy in Couple and Family Therapy: Mechanisms of Change and Implications. KMAN Counseling & Psychology Nexus, 3, 1-14. https://www.journals.kmanpub.com/index.php/psychnexus/article/view/4466